Two notes: First, Todd is, from what I remember, reformed. Therefore, I do not agree with his soteriology. I believe in Salvation for all and all have a free will. Second, I may or may not agree with everything that he says in all his videos. However, I find him right more than I do wrong.
God's plan and way for sexual purity, morality and chasity is the best. He knew what He was doing and we, as His created image bearers, would do well to listen to HIS commands. Not our own fleshly desires. I will not make any more commentary on this video as I want everyone to engage with it as presented. I will say, though, watch till the end. He does give one place of hope. His website is https://wretched.org/
God bless.